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Lady of the Army
The Life of Mrs. George S. Patton
If anyone considered an army wife to be merely the kite’s tail, Beatrice Ayer Patton had the perfect retort, “How high can a kite soar without its tail?”
Synopsis
395 Commonwealth Avenue in Boston is not just the only Tiffany-designed home in the world but also where an insecure, twenty-three-year-old George Patton declared his love to Beatrice Ayer. Her father—textile and patent medicine industrialist Frederick Ayer—liked the man but not so much the soldier and tried everything in his power to make him change careers. The West Point Cadet, however, was as hellbent on becoming a great battlefield commander as his sweetheart was on becoming his wife. He made a perfect choice because, as Lady of the Army shows, George Patton never would have reached the heights he did without her.
Reviews
“A masterpiece of seminal research, Lady of the Army is an extraordinary, detailed, and unique biography of a remarkable woman married to a now legendary American military leader in both World War I and World War II.”
—Midwest Book Review
“A magisterial recounting of the life of George S. Patton’s wife Beatrice, Stefanie van Steelandt’s Lady of the Army offers a frank and sympathetic portrait of the woman behind the general.”
—Craig Jones, for IndieReader
Author
An independent scholar who spent the last twenty years studying biography, Stefanie Van Steelandt grew up near Belgium’s Liberty Road, which General Patton and his Third Army followed during WWII. Currently living in New York City and working on her second book, Ms. Van Steelandt spent nearly four years researching and writing Lady of the Army.
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Articles
Portfolio

Stefanie Van Steelandt
Lady of the Army: The Life of Mrs. George S. Patton (2022)
Lady of the Army tells the story of Beatrice Ayer Patton, the woman who shaped the man, fortified the soldier, and created the legend.
Stefanie Van Steelandt
The Five Beautiful Delano Sisters (WIP)
The story of the “five beautiful Delano sisters,” one of whom would become the mother of future President Franklin Roosevelt.
Stefanie Van Steelandt
The Lady Who Shines: Joanne Holbrook Patton’s Life of Service (WIP, 2026)
The story of Joanne Holbrook Patton and the military family that stretches back for five generations.
Stefanie Van Steelandt
The Dame of Panama (WIP)
The story of British ballerina Dame Margot Fonteyn, her husband, Roberto Arias, and the country of Panama.
Author & Speaker
Stefanie Van Steelandt

Bio
An independent scholar and blogger who spent the last twenty years studying biography, Stefanie Van Steelandt grew up near Belgium’s Liberty Road, which General Patton and his Third Army followed during WWII.
After a decade in the art world, she serendipitously landed on the subject of Mrs. Beatrice Ayer Patton. Based on hours of interviews and years of research, Lady of the Army received the 2023 Benjamin Franklin Silver Award for Biography.
Upcoming Engagements:
Military Service Day at Patton Homestead — July 19, 2025
Inspiration
Besides the myriad World War II books I had read, my first introduction to General Patton was through the movie Patton with George C. Scott in the title role. Intrigued by this General who believed in reincarnation and wrote poetry, I ordered the thickest biography I could find. By the time I finished reading, the little information it contained about Beatrice Ayer Patton was enough to spark my interest, taking me on a four-year journey.
Who was this woman who, at sixteen, decided she would follow this man, even though he told her he wasn’t interested in family life and wanted to die an early death on the battlefield at the head of a great army?